Independence Day
Yeah I would say it was that. I saw the fireworks here in Avon on Monday night and as always they were good.
Then on the 4th I cruised over to a BBQ at Justin's house. There my ex-girlfriend Kat joined us. She had called me and made sure it was ok for her to come and I happily welcomed her. We hung out and it was fun.
Then later that night we had the inevitable "post-breakup" talk about why our relationship didn’t work out. She is feeling down because her and her new boyfriend are going through some issues and she was a little upset that I may be dating Chandra. Like I told her earlier and posted on Monday, no, Chandra and I are not dating. We hang out a lot but we are just friends. Chandra screams whenever I approach closer then 12 inches to her.
To sum up my conversation with Kat it went something like this.
"How can you date Chandra? She is to Young!"
"I'm not dating her. And even if I was dating her I don't think our ages matter. You just react differently when around someone that young and understand that they are still learning about the real world."
"God I'm so jealous that you would pick some flighty little young thing."
"You have been dating some guy for three weeks and you are upset you saw me with Chandra when you were driving around in his truck?"
"Yeah but he is a psycho asshole."
"Ahh so it is ok for you to date a psycho asshole but not for me to date a younger girl?"
"I just miss you so much. Why did we break up?"
"You were in love with me; I wasn't in love with you. I enjoyed spending every minute with you but I don't lie about my feelings."
"I think I am more in love with the idea of you, then you. I kept expecting to find this social person inside of you I could bring out. Now I know you are social just not the way I expected."
"I don't hide who I am. I enjoy spending time by myself and when others ask me out I enjoy spending time with others."
"I just expected more. After getting to know you, you are what you see. There isn't any real depth to you."
"Like I said, I don't hide anything. If that makes me shallow then so be it."
So to sum it up in one sentence our conversation went from "I'm jealous, I love you, I hate you" all in about an hour.
By this time I was ready to end this conversation. I drove Kat home and talked to Jen for about an hour after that. Pretty crazy night but it got Kat venting and I think we will be better friends if we don't leave any "unspoken" tensions between us.
Yeah I would say it was that. I saw the fireworks here in Avon on Monday night and as always they were good.
Then on the 4th I cruised over to a BBQ at Justin's house. There my ex-girlfriend Kat joined us. She had called me and made sure it was ok for her to come and I happily welcomed her. We hung out and it was fun.
Then later that night we had the inevitable "post-breakup" talk about why our relationship didn’t work out. She is feeling down because her and her new boyfriend are going through some issues and she was a little upset that I may be dating Chandra. Like I told her earlier and posted on Monday, no, Chandra and I are not dating. We hang out a lot but we are just friends. Chandra screams whenever I approach closer then 12 inches to her.
To sum up my conversation with Kat it went something like this.
"How can you date Chandra? She is to Young!"
"I'm not dating her. And even if I was dating her I don't think our ages matter. You just react differently when around someone that young and understand that they are still learning about the real world."
"God I'm so jealous that you would pick some flighty little young thing."
"You have been dating some guy for three weeks and you are upset you saw me with Chandra when you were driving around in his truck?"
"Yeah but he is a psycho asshole."
"Ahh so it is ok for you to date a psycho asshole but not for me to date a younger girl?"
"I just miss you so much. Why did we break up?"
"You were in love with me; I wasn't in love with you. I enjoyed spending every minute with you but I don't lie about my feelings."
"I think I am more in love with the idea of you, then you. I kept expecting to find this social person inside of you I could bring out. Now I know you are social just not the way I expected."
"I don't hide who I am. I enjoy spending time by myself and when others ask me out I enjoy spending time with others."
"I just expected more. After getting to know you, you are what you see. There isn't any real depth to you."
"Like I said, I don't hide anything. If that makes me shallow then so be it."
So to sum it up in one sentence our conversation went from "I'm jealous, I love you, I hate you" all in about an hour.
By this time I was ready to end this conversation. I drove Kat home and talked to Jen for about an hour after that. Pretty crazy night but it got Kat venting and I think we will be better friends if we don't leave any "unspoken" tensions between us.
No offense but that's a typical conversation about a break up with a typical Vail male...sorry :(
Posted by Jennifer | 4:48 PM